This is best done during the new moon (for its association with new beginnings) but may be done at any time. Take some time to sit quietly and meditate on what you wish to change in your life, how your life will improve with these changes and what you can do to facilitate these changes. If you’re unsure of what you need to do, focus on your deep desire for change.
Place the stone in the bowl and cover it evenly with the soil. This stone represents your old self (who is stuck) and the soil represents whatever is holding you back from the change you desire. Light the candle and place it on top of the soil. As you do so, say:
“This flame burns bright with my desire for change.”
Now focus on the candle flame, once again thinking of what changes you’d like in your life. Next, say:
I am the light of each new day,
I have the power to find my way.
By candle’s flame,
By soil of earth,
Bring to me my spirit’s rebirth.
Allow the candle to burn itself out and repeat this ritual at least once a week (or however often you feel is necessary). Dispose of the used materials by burying them.
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